First, I mistook gratitude for love. Then, to make things worse, I mistook obsession for love. You would think that I'm at the age when I can recognize and understand love and healthy relationships; but alas, being in a monogamous, romantic relationship for a quarter of a century may have stunted my ability to make smart dating decisions. My obsessor and I had a past, one … [Read more...] about The Time I Mistook Obsession for Love