Lollie note: The following is an excerpt from a book that I'm currently writing called There Are No Nice Guys: A Collection of Erotic Tales and Life Lessons. Enjoy. What are you looking for? It's always the first question. No chit chat. No getting to know me. Right after matching on a dating app, he just quickly wants to know what it is that I seek. Maybe it's a … [Read more...] about There Are No Nice Guys
For me, being placed in a situation where I have to reject someone is way worse than being rejected. I have good self-esteem, and I'm logical. So, on those infrequent occasions when I'm rejected (yes, it happens), I can bounce back. Not every guy that I'm attracted to is going to be attracted to me. I get it. But when a man shows a certain level of affection or admiration for … [Read more...] about How to Tell a Man You’re Not Interested in Him
Wedding season is here. In fact, I'm attending one wedding this weekend and another in about three weeks. For women, we get to don a pretty dress and some strappy sandals as we watch our friends and loved ones unite. For men... it's time to suit up. I think most men grimace at the idea of wearing a suit. There seems to be a preconceived notion that a suit stifles a man's … [Read more...] about Men: Suit Up!